What Happened to Rory Gilmore?


The Gilmore Girls: One Year In The Life marathon is over and, after 4 episodes, 6 hours, 1 year back in Stars Hollow I feel mostly disappointed.

What happened to Rory Gilmore?

Rory Gilmore, the role model for all the girls out there (and for the parents as well). Rory Gilmore, always much too praised, but driven and hard working. Rory Gilmore, the ambitious girl, always over prepared and willing to work her way to the top with no shortcuts.

What happened to Rory Gilmore?

As everyone around her is “super proud”, she apparently reached her peak and cannot top her New Yorker piece. Is she starting to doubt herself? Was Mitchum Huntzberger right about her not having what it takes to be a journalist?

Self doubt can sometimes bring a healthy new perspective, old Rory would have known that.

So, what happened to Rory Gilmore?

One piece published in the New Yorker and anything less feels beneath her, teaching at Chilton smells like failure while she has Mitchum Huntzberger arranging interviews for her (Serena and her DAR application, anyone?), arrives to a real job interview totally unprepared, assuming that just being Rory Gilmore will be enough.

But let’s talk about the Stars Hollow Gazette job. Editor of the paper when she had nothing else on the horizon. Could have been her turning point. Yes, the equipment was old and the coworkers hopeless, but with your own laptop and your friends writing for you for free, what can stop you? As she herself points out, she has a master degree in journalism from Yale and experience as an editor. She could have made the Stars Hollow Gazette at least a better newspaper, she could have assembled a hell of a team to write for it: Doyle (former editor of Yale’s paper) was already writing her movie reviews. Add Jess (professional writer), Paris (former editor of the Yale’s paper and the Franklin), the Heap Alien writing a music column, Kirk writing Kirk stuff. Not too far-fetched, in my opinion.

Instead is a poem on the front page/no poem on the front page diatribe until Jess comes to give her enlightenment in a two-minutes conversation (again?)

For the last time,

What happened to Rory Gilmore?

She is better than this, deserved better than this.

Not mentioning her love life, this deserves another post.


Tuesday’s Inspiration: Tommy Hilfiger


To celebrate the 30th birthday of his namesake brand, Mr Tommy Hilfiger sits with Imran Amed of Business of Fashion to tell the story behind the legendary brand.

From Elmira, New York to New York City. The ‘hangman campaign’, going public, suffering overexposure and overdistribution, re-positioning and thinking ahead.

A true lesson in fashion business!

You can find the entire article here.

Occupation: Full-Time Mum


My baby is turning 1 and as he grows and becomes more independent, I can’t help panicking at the thought that soon I’ll be back into the job market.

Unfortunately career wise, as we all know, an extended parental leave to raise another human being is considered a suicidal move. But, supposing I don’t want to lie in my CV, how can I put it otherwise, without mentioning the baby? For the last 12 months I’ve been working on leaving my mark on this world… seriously?

What if, instead, I’m proud to be a full-time mother and I think that this experience will have a positive impact on my work life? I mean, when I look back at all that I have learnt these last 12 months, I am awestruck. I am able to do things I didn’t think I could ever do. I have pushed and challenged my own limits in so many ways and I am really proud of who I am and what I have accomplished, so why hide it?

This past year I have worked harder than ever, and I believe that being a mother IS an occupation.

So here’s my Full-Time Mum’s CV!

Work Experience

FULL-TIME MUM (2014-ongoing)

I am responsible for my child’s intellectual, emotional and physical development, along with his general well-being.

  • able to work on 24/7 shifts
  • flexible attitude and positive approach
  • proven endurance on no-sleep
  • able to concentrate in noisy environment
  • excellent understanding of baby language
  • quick learning with no training
  • strong mentoring and motivational skills
  • able to plan ahead and manage time effectively

Areas of expertise:

  • crisis management
  • multitasking
  • negotiation
  • training and mentoring
  • team/relationship building
  • problem solving
  • child nutrition
  • first aid

Quite impressive, uh? And yet people think this isn’t a job.

Tuesday’s Inspiration: Patricia Arquette’s Oscar Acceptance Speech


“We have fought for everybody else’s equal rights. It’s our time to have wage equality once and for all, and equal rights for women in the United States of America!”

(and the rest of the world, I may add)

Look at Meryl Streep and Jennifer Lopez cheering loud and Shirley MacLaine smiling in the background!


Go Patricia! Great speech!

Ad Wars: CHANEL n.5 VS Miss Dior


The latest ads for CHANEL n.5 and miss Dior fragrances have been released in time to boost sales for Valentine’s Day. Both brands have chosen the short film ad, with Chanel calling back director Baz Luhrmann hoping to replicate the success of 2004 Le Film, starring Nicole Kidman.

CHANEL n.5 The one that I want

Supermodel Gisele Bündchen goes surfing in a Chanel swimsuit and matching board to clear out her mind, after, presumably, a fight with her husband. She looks very troubled: she feels something is wrong, or maybe regrets something she said. So she hurries back to her mansion trotting on the private beach only to see her husband leaving the house, but instead of stopping him she changes her wet swimsuit to a silk gown and sadly watches the car pull out. Her daughter arrives pulling the nanny’s arm and she hides her worries behind a smile, while finally noticing the note he left her. We can read on the envelope “to my heart I must be true” but she leaves it on her dressing table preferring to put on lipstick and merrily spay some Chanel n.5 in the air, to her daughter’s delight. They wave goodbye and the little girl goes to school while Gisele goes to work. She’s a top model, in case you were wondering. During a pause in the photo shooting (the photographer is Baz Luhrmann) she finally reads her husband’s letter. He still loves her! She must go find him and tell him she loves him back! She leaves the set at once and drives, weeping, the deserted road to the city where she throws her car keys to an invisible valet and finally reunite with him in a Lynchian theatre where he has been waiting all day listening to a cover of a the Grease song that inspired his love letter. They kiss and smile, and they are happy and in love again!

My thoughts: the Chanel ad is the celebration of marital love, who can overcome some bad days (symbolized by the waves and Gisele surfing them) and be renewed by a date night in the city. Unlike the Kidman ad, here love and family come before work. The choice of Gisele as a testimonial is quite fitting: she embodies the modern woman able to balance a successfull carreer and the care of her happy family.

The target: they are trying to attract new customers: working women in their early thirties are the main target.

Miss Dior #itsmissactually

Natalie Portman opens the door to the hotel valet bearing her wedding bouquet “your flowers Madame” he says politely to the soon-to-be bride. “It’s miss actually” she replies drily. Next thing we know, she’s walking down the aisle at her father’s arm. She looks terrified. At the last moment she stops, looks behind and murmurs “I’m sorry dad” while placing a lily of the valley from her bouquet on his lapel. She walks away and the world turns from black and white to colours. She’s so relieved that she takes off her shoes to run even faster and gets rid of her lovely bouquet who falls to the ground. Suddenly she’s in the country (must have been running a lot) where she takes off her wedding gown, revealing a black strapless mini dress under it. She’s running again. Now she’s on a rock by the sea, waiting for a helicopter coming to her rescue. She mounts a rope ladder in a rose petals storm and flies in the sunset, while the helicopter pilot lasciviously kisses her on the neck.

My thoughts: I think that the idea here is to portray a young woman who choses to escape a path already set for her (marriage) to live a more adventurous life. What I see is instead a spoiled rich girl who runs away with her lover on her wedding day in a very theatrical way, embarrassing her father and showing us that in the end she’s not that independent, since she runs from a man to another.

The target: young women in their twenties I guess. Natalie Portman is way older though.

Conclusions: neither is selling the dream, but the Chanel ad is more consistent. Dior did best in ads without a real story but with a strong Parisian mood, like this one. Valentine’s sales will proclaim the real winner!

Busy 2014


2014 was a busy year and I will certainly remember it as a time of big changes.

I have done lots of new things and I haven’t done at all what I was used to be doing. Feeling confused? Let’s make a list (I love lists!)

In 2014 I have:

  • given birth to my baby boy
  • relocated twice
  • lived in 3 different countries
  • taken 6 planes (with baby they count double!)
  • dedicated my spare time to learning
  • completed a Coursera MOOC
  • made new friends

In 2014 I haven’t:

  • worked outside the house
  • earned any money
  • slept 8 hours straight
  • read any memorable book

Whoa, listing it makes it even more odd!

Anyway, my wish for 2015 is just this: get a good night’s sleep. Because when you are nice and rested you can take over the world. Oh, yeah!