It reminds me of that old joke- you know, a guy walks into a psychiatrist’s office and says: “hey doc, my brother’s crazy! He thinks he’s a chicken”. Then the doc says: “why don’t you turn him in?” Then the guy says: “I would but I need the eggs”. I guess that’s how I feel about relationships. They’re totally crazy, irrational, and absurd, but we keep going through it because we need the eggs.