After the first couple of tiring months, babies usually adjust to a routine: they feed less frequently and they sleep through the night (more or less). For me, this meant sleeping six hours straight or more, which led to not needing afternoon naps, which gave me a couple of free hours every afternoon. With a baby sleeping next room, this precious time can’t however be used as you might like: you can’t leave the house, no saxophone practice, no crazy cleaning.
At first I attempted reading books and catching up with my favorite tv shows (the girly ones my husband won’t watch with me), but I quickly grew bored. Then, I discovered Duolingo and my afternoons changed. I finally had a purpose: learn German.
Like I guess many other mums who decide to pause their career to care for their children, I feel scared for what will come next. I enjoy very much caring for my son, and even if now he’s only seven months old and needs me very much, in a blink of an eye he’ll become a big boy and I will need to start focusing again on my goals.
So what’s better than devoting your spare time to learning while you are at home not working? I mean, not only learning job related stuff, but learning just for the pleasure. What a great chance is that? I doubt I will ever work in Germany (who knows, anyway?) but it gave me such pleasure to understand and speak a few basic German sentences while in Frankfurt airport (“Sie ist ein Mädchen?” “Nein, Jungen!”). Plus, Duolingo is fun and quite addictive. You can also challenge your friends and keep track of their improvements (my mum is the champion, even though I managed to beat her for few weeks).
Learning is fun. Learning is addictive.
After Duolingo came Cousera, whose slogan is Learning without Limits. Coursera offer thousands of free MOOCs (massive open online courses) of higher or university level, and partners with Stanford, Princeton, Yale just to name a few. You can learn at your own pace, discuss with other students all around the world, take tests and even earn a certificate.
I started with Calculus I, which is a self paced course, meaning you can start whenever you want to. I did some calculus in high school but I was really bad in maths back then so, after watching two modules I realized that even if I understood the theory, I had great difficulties doing the test exercises. This was because I had (have) serious knowledge gaps in maths. What to do?
I paused my calculus course and signed up for Khan Academy.
Khan Academy changed my life. Seriously.
For some sort of gender discrimination, as a kid I was told that I wasn’t going to be as good as my brother in maths or in other science related fields, even though up to junior high I had the best grades in all subjects. Then in high school I encountered the first difficulties and I kind of gave up, having internalized that I was just not good at maths. Now that I am learning again that same stuff I feel a new person: learning boosts self-esteem.
I realized that there are no bad pupils: there are just bad teaching methods. Suppose you get a B on a test. You passed the test but you clearly have some knowledge gaps on the subject, like a slice of swiss cheese. Nonetheless the class moves on and what was a B most certainly will become a C on the next test, thanks to those swiss cheese holes we talked about earlier. When you don’t move at the same pace, you are simply left behind.
With Khan Academy you stay (or you return) on a given subject until you have mastered it and, best of all, learning at your pace means that you can watch a tutorial video as many times you want, pause it and get hints to solve a problem if you feel stuck. No one is there to judge you and frown when you fail and if you need to review a concept twice or more you won’t feel ashamed to ask as you might be if someone was actually there to teach you. It feels empowering to know that, even if you might fail at the beginning, eventually you’ll master that subject. And that applies to everything.
You can learn anything.
Sorry if this comes a day late, but I was quite sick yesterday.
Emma Watson‘s speech about feminism and gender equality is really inspiring, so please do take ten minutes to watch it all and, why not? Share it with your fathers, brothers, husbands, sons, friends. Here‘s more about UN’s He For She campaign.
Gilmore Girls is my favorite tv show ever. These last few days there has been a little buzz on the internet because the whole 7 seasons are going to be available on Netflix starting October 1st. I personally do own them all on DVD, and even though I have rewatched them again and again trough the years, just the news make me wanna start again from day 1 in Stars Hollow.
Truth is, GG is more than a tv show: it’s a lifestyle. It’s a religion.
For those like Dean who have been left in the dark all this time, here’s a little synopsis: Lorelai is the thirty-two years old manager of the Independence Inn and the single mother of Rory, fifteen. The relationship with her parents, the wealthy and conservative Emily and Richard, is quite tense and they barely speak. When Rory gets accepted at the prestigious Chilton high school, Lorelai realises that she cannot afford the tuition and is forced to turn to her parents for help.
Even if it looks like just a family drama, GG is so much more than that. The characters are quite well developed and they all grow considerably throughout the seasons as they experience high and lows. The relationship between Lorelai and Rory changes as years go by, as that with her parents does. Plus, GG heavily introduced pop culture references and fast and witty dialogues -as the heart and the soul of the show itself.
So, if you haven’t subscribed to Netflix yet… well, starting October you have a good reason to.
Please note that this blog will be closed from October 1st due to intensive and compulsive rewatch of Gilmore Girls.
Last month, when Vogue published this amazing photoshoot of Blake Lively by Mario Testino I wasn’t even thinking about Autumn. Now that here in Ireland we have definitively said goodbye to summer, all I wanna do is drink tea wearing a poncho in front of a fireplace. In Wyoming.
Welcome September. I’m ready.
This is a very simple and quite popular recipe in Italy. You can bake it with your children because all you need to measure the ingredients is a clean yogurt pot. In total you will add 7 pots of ingredients:
- 3 pots of pastry flour
- 2 pots of sugar
- 1 pot of natural yogurt
- 1 pot of sunflower oil
- 2 eggs
- 1 teaspoon of baking powder
- 1/2 teaspoon of lemon zest (optional)
- icing sugar to decorate
Start by mixing the eggs and the sugar until you get a creamy texture. Add all the other ingredients. Mix thoroughly. Bake for 35 to 40 minutes at 180°C (356°F).
The basic recipe is quite tasty on itself, but you can also make some little changes:
- use flavored yogurt such as vanilla, coconut, lemon, blackcurrant instead of natural yogurt
- replace the pot of yogurt with 1 pot of buttermilk (added softness guaranteed!)
- add 2 sliced apples and some grounded cinnamon to the mixture
- add 1 pot of chocolate drops
Try it and let me know in the comments!